How often do we feel invisible or unheard, or find it difficult to truly understand those around us? In an age of superficial communication, it is increasingly difficult to build deep connections, see others as they are, and make them feel important and noticed. David Brooks reveals the secrets of interpersonal interaction: how to see through the eyes of your conversation partner, how to become an attentive listener, how to talk about difficult topics, and how to support someone in trouble. The author offers practical methods for developing these skills and uses numerous examples to show how to understand each other and build relationships based on trust. The book will be useful to anyone who wants to improve their communication skills, as well as psychologists, social workers, and all professionals whose mission is to help others overcome life\'s difficulties and emerge victorious.