Discover new possibilities with The New Topping Book!

A guide to the role of the “top” in BDSM and kink relationships. This book focuses on dominance, leadership, and responsible topping within consensual erotic and partner practices - not on cooking or culinary “toppings.”

The New Topping Book offers information and prompts on how to approach the top role with emphasis on communication, safety, boundaries, and mutual respect. It can serve as a source of inspiration and practical advice for couples or individuals who want to explore power dynamics, negotiate scenes, and set expectations so experiences are enjoyable and voluntary for everyone involved.

The book can be useful for both beginners and more experienced readers who want to better understand what the top role involves, how to prepare for scenes, how to work with risks, and how to handle aftercare and follow-up communication.

Why choose this book?

• Focus on communication and consent - emphasizes negotiation, boundaries, and voluntariness.
• Clear explanations - topics are presented accessibly for different experience levels.
• Practical suggestions - offers tips for preparation, during the scene, and aftercare.
• Support for safer practice - addresses risks, responsibility, and problem prevention.
• Inspiration for relationships and personal growth - can help clarify needs, desires, and expectations.

Main features of The New Topping Book

• Focuses on the role of the “top” in a BDSM/kink context
• Emphasis on consent, boundaries, communication, and responsibility
• Prompts for planning and leading scenes and working with power dynamics
• Recommendations for aftercare and follow-up communication
• Suitable for readers who want to explore the topic from the basics to deepen their practice